Often in life we forget the things we should remember and remember the things we should forget.

Be Unique.

Being who you are isn't something that you should have to debate about with any of your so called "friends". When a person tries to dictate your thoughts, your opinions, your words, your style, and everything else that makes you unique, you have to realize that they honestly have no desire to see who you are as a person, blossom. Those who don't like you may at times try to tell you how to live your life, and may pass judgement on you, but in the end it is only the judgement from God that truly matters. 

Don't allow yourself to live your life trying to make everyone like you, and trying to please people who you will never please. Keep it simple, and give time to those who give you respect and love, instead of the ones whose intentions are out of nothing more than hate, jealousy, and spite.

Rare Chance

In everything we're choosing, there are thousands of things we are refusing... that was the very first lesson I learned from a very special person.

Anyone who has ever talked with her would tell you that... She's fearless. She's tough. As her friend, I had a rare chance to get to know a side of her that I rarely see in other people. She is a wonderful person through and through. She's kind. She's patient. She may push you to the edge but it would always be worth it. She's loving. She's generous. And she will never give up on you. She would always be someone who'd care enough to encourage. Someone who will give others confidence. Someone who will point you toward the right direction. Someone who is selfless enough to share her passion, her knowledge, and her heart. And if the tables were turned and I were given the chance to tell her one thing my heart says... A one final lesson I want to share. That is, "You are worth more than all the thousand things that could be refused by someone like me."

This person, who has recently won the coveted spot of the best person in the prestigious book of my life, her name, Grace.

-- Karla Bianca.

Realized

I've been asking myself, why does the person who'd hurt you from the past has to come back? Dati, di ko alam ang sagot, but now ... Baka nagbabalik sila to make you realize how much you've changed, how much you've grown and how much you've moved on. Kung gaano ka na ka-better person now unlike before...

--kb

Foolish Heart

Falling in love. it’s not always a happily-ever-after story. Most of the time, it’s just one of those once-upon-a-time’s. Sometimes we have to give up wonderful things just to make everything alright. We have to bleed alone for somebody to smile,we need to let those tears flow just to save the tears of others. we have to break our hearts to fill somebody else emptiness. And there are times where we have to give up our own happiness just to rescue someone else burden.

--♥

For those who are in a Relationship

Para sa mga babae:
di lahat ng gusto natin, yun ang masusunod. Being in a relationship is like giving suggestions to one another for everything to work out.
Pabayaan nyong maglaro ng online/offline games boyfriend nyo. Parang tayo lang din naman sila ehh. Diba, ‘pag may gusto tayong gawin, ayaw natin yung pipigilan tayo? It’s the same for them. You can limit his time, but not totally make him quit.
Di dapat sinisisi ang lahat ng pag-aaway sa boyfriend nyo. Di naman magiging away ang isang maliit na misunderstanding kung di natin bini-big deal.

Para sa mga lalake:
know your limits. You can play online/offline games if you want pero alalahanin nyo, you should give time to your girlfriend. Ang mga babae kase, kahit sobra na ang tiwala sayo, magseselos at magseselos pa rin yan. In some point kase, iisipin ng mga babae na parang mas importante ang barkada o ang laro kesa sa kanya. You should balance both your relationship and your friends.
di kayo dapat ang humiwalay sa babae. In the first place, kayo yung nanligaw. Pinangarap nyo yung babae. Di dahilan na hindi sya yung klaseng babae that you expected her to be, mawawalan ka ng gana. Di yan pagmamahal. You should accept every little bit of her. Hindi agad-agad pero slowly. Understand her lalo na sa times na nagiging moody sya.
All in all, wag na wag nyong huhukayin yung napag-awayan na. Ika nga, forgive and forget.

VIP

V.I.P. - Very Important Person

Do you have someone in mind whom you can say that he/she is a very important person to you and to your life?

I guess everyone does.

There's this person whom I consider very important to me. She inspires me a lot. She inspires me in singing, writing, work, and in everything I do. She is really a good model. I consider her as my second mother for she is too caring, loving, beautiful, and wonderful.

She is so generous, she is terrific, she is exceptional. I like everything about her. I so adore her, and I just wanted to be like her in time.

There's this feeling that I will do anything for her. She's just so important that I never let her snip by in my mind. Everyday I think about her. I always want to give her the best. The happiness.

But of course, too much is bad. I am starting to learn how to not care that much, love that much... for I know someday, we'll be apart. And that would be the hardest part.

But since, we're still in this world... and we are together, I should enjoy every moment and every day!

Bitterness

Bitterness - Salitang pantukoy sa taong mapait ang pagkatao. Hindi masaya, at puno ng inis at galit sa pagkatao.

Maraming tao sa mundong ito ang BITTER. Yun bang imbes na maging masaya at maayos ang pakikisama sa ibang tao, e, lalong sumasama. Alam natin na hindi maganda ang may kaaway. At ako, yung tipo ng taong ayoko ng may kaaway... Pero, 'di naman natin maiiwasan 'yon hindi ba?

Marami akong kilalang tao na BITTER, at sa ngayon, kilalang kilala ko siya. It's been 4 months na, pero matigas talaga ang puso niya. At nakakagulat lang... kung ano-anong sinasabi ng taong 'to against sakin. Sinasabi niya na naninira daw ako ng kanyang pagkatao, sumbungera daw ako, at kung ano-ano pa. Well, aminado ako, mahirap talaga trabaho ko... Dahil nasa 'kin ang sisi. Funny thing is that, lahat ng sinasabi niya, ay hindi totoo.

Anong dapat gawin sa mga taong ganon? Hayaan lang... Never stoop down to their level. Wag tayong gumaya sa kanila lalo na at siya ay matanda pa kesa sakin... Isip bata. Nakakatawa na lang isipin.

Nakakatawang isipin na may mga taong hindi makamove on sa mga pangyayari. Nananahimik ka na, pero eto sila, kumakahol na parang aso. Tumatahol sa taong hindi nila kilala. TAMA DI BA? :)

Yun bang sugod sila ng sugod, parinig dito, parinig doon... Pero ako, tahimik lang. Tahimik ako hindi dahil takot ako, kundi dahil ayokong pumatol sa mga taong mas mababa pa ang lipad kesa sakin.

2 months na lang, magiging malaya na 'ko. Makakalaya na ako sa mga taong BITTER. Ako kasi yung taong positibo. Ayokong sumasali sa mga taong negative dahil nakakaapekto ito, te! Di GA? haha.

Ewan ko ba, kaya kayo! Silence is the best revenge. OKAY?! :)

Don't come back at all...

Trying to forget someone who gave you so much to remember is almost impossible, and will hurt you in more ways than it can help you. In life one crucial bit that we must remember is that the memories that we make with people in different places and in different times, are the memories that help to make us who we are on the inside. 

Though there will be people in your life that commit acts and say words to us that are wrong, we should never forget about the memories they helped us create because it is with these memories that we are able to build upon the rest of our lives. Remember that your memories are for you to be able to use to educate you about the good times and the bad times in your past, while your dreams should be used to help educate you about your future.

LET GO.

The mistakes that you have made in your past, should be left in your past. Little do many of us realize but nobody is perfect. As a matter of fact, life just wouldn't be life if we were perfect. There would be no room for growth, and we would live our lives with no direction and no purpose. 

Victory is the sweetest when we have experienced defeat, it is sweetest when we have obstacles in our way to overcome. There is no testimony without a test, and even though you may have failed a few tests in your past, there are still many tests in your future that you will have a good opportunity to ace if you maintain a good work ethic, remain motivated, and be willing to forget about failing in the past. Many of you today must stop beating yourselves up because of the mistakes that you have made in the past, learn from them, use this wisdom for gains in your life, and let those mistakes go!!!

Having enough courage to really believe in yourself is sometimes a process that takes longer to develop in some people compared to others. Though some are exposed to being confident and living a faithful life when they are young, not everyone is quite blessed with this early guidance and end up starting and living much of their adult life having to find out who they really are, and what having self confidence is really about.

At some moment in our lives we must learn exactly who we are, and the fact that we are capable of anything that we truly put our minds too. With this we must also believe wholeheartedly in acting, and sticking to doing things that will actually mean something to us, instead of devoting all of ourselves to a cause that we have no passion for, or a cause that we in no shape or form believe in. <3

Who are we to know any better?

Sometimes when we love we are stuck loving someone who has no desire to change, or no desire to work things out with us in an effort to make things better, or to keep the relationship on a track of growth and fulfillment. There comes a point in time in some relationships that we must realize the only option that we have to live a good life is to let what is weighing us down in life go.

Sometimes a love must be broken and let go so that both hearts won't have to keep suffering. Though it is true that love makes you want to hold on to things that you shouldn't, it is up to you to seek what is truly in your heart to know that you deserve greatness in every aspect of your life, including your love life. There is a huge difference between settling for a person because of the love shared in the past, and loving someone because they are who is meant for you. Never be afraid to let go.

If any person that you give your time, effort, and energy to doesn't act like they appreciate you, they don't deserve for you to give your time, effort and energy to them. Don't be bothered with those who wont receive from you. As in the parable of the sower, there are just some people who will never allow for him or her to receive any thing from anyone else. Some soil or people will never be able to let go and humble their selves enough to receive anything from any person, including you. 

Don't get discouraged, because there are many others who need help as well. Sometimes we may be able to effectively inspire a whole nation of people that we aren't close to, but not be able to touch who needs it the most and is closest to us. This is just how life works in some instances. We have to choose to let go of the things in life that are slowing our progression and the progression of the people who we are missing out on blessing.

A mother is defined literally as a parent of the female gender. Characteristics of a mother include a person who protects, loves, cherishes, sacrifices, teaches, and works hard to provide the best upbringing possible for her children. From the time a mother has a child in the womb, they endure lots of changes to their bodies, and the overall lives they live, and usually endure a tremendous amount of pain during the actual birth of their child(ren).

A mother's touch is something that is very hard to duplicate, and is something that everyone can use and love when they are growing up. We need to be sure to celebrate our mothers, and let them know that we will forever be grateful for all of the things, the sacrifice, the pain, and the love that they have given to us. Never take having a mother for granted, because not everyone is lucky enough to have one in their lives. Treat your mother just as special as she really is, as one in a million.

If Someone Wanted To Stay They'd Still Be There

Coming to terms with a real break up is something that is very difficult to do. When you have a hard time letting go of someone that you still care for, realize that if they wanted to stay they would still be there. Very few things can creep in the way of true love, and if a person wanted you in their life, they most certainly would make a way for that to be. <3

MAG INGAT.

(REPOST)

PAKIBASA Please... PAHINGE LANG NG 5 MINS. SHARE NIO PAG MAY CARE KAYO.

I want to share this story for you all to be aware while having their trip. Ana, Student ng PUP, uwian na. Sumakay siya ng Jeep. Apat lang sila na nasa loob ng jeep; Yung driver, si Ana, isang matandang lalake at isang nursing student. Si ANA, nakaupo sa dulo ng jeep, right side, malapit sa babaan. Yung matandang lalake, nakaupo sa left side, likuran ng driver. Then yun nursing student, nakasandal sa matandang lalake, nakalaglag yun buhok sa mukha, tulog ata.

Umandar na yung jeep. After 5mins. May sumakay na matandang babae. Umupo sya sa harap nung matandang lalake at nung nursing student. Umandar ulit yung jeep. Wala pang 10mins, pumara yung matandang babae, and on her way down sa jeep, pinipilit nyang bumaba si Ana.

Sabi nya: "BABA!" On a not shouting but medyo galit na way.
ANA: "Bakit po?"
Matandang Babae: "Basta baba!"
Hinahatak nya ang damit ni Ana pababa,
while saying "sabing baba eh!"

dahil sa takot, bumaba si Ana..
Pagkaandar ng jeep, Ana asked the old woman..

ANA: "Bakit po ba?"
Matandang Babae: "Hindi mo ba napansin?"
ANA: "Alin po?"
Matandang Babae: "Nangingitim na 'yung mga kuko nung babae!"
ANA: "Ano po ibig nyong sabihin?"
MB: "Patay na yung babae! Sinaksak ng Ice pick nun lalake!"

*Kapag daw ice pick ang ginamit pangsaksak, di daw lalabas ang dugo dahil maliit lang
ang ice pick, sa loob daw mamumuo yung dugo, magkakaron ng blood clot.*
Hindi pa nag sink in kay Ana yung sinabi nun matandang babae,
until napanood nya sa news.

Swerte ni Ana dahil may malasakit yung matandang babae sa kanya, dahil diba, pwede naman umalis yun MB kahit hindi kasama si Ana. It means, di pa oras ni Ana. Ang nakakaawa is yung nursing student.
Sobrang swerte ni Ana. Puzzle pa rin sa'min what's the real story behind that.

Kasi sabi daw sa news,di daw hinold up yun nursing student, kaya hindi alam ang reason kung bakit sya pinatay. ngayon si Ana, lagi daw tulala at lutang. Tahimik palagi. Sus, kahit kanino naman siguro mangyari yun magkakaganon diba? Kaya sa mga commuters dyan, be aware sa mga nakakatabi nyo sa byahe,
laging mag iingat and be observant.

Be Safe and Never removed your eyes from the people you saw inside any public transportation. You will never know that one of them may hurt you for no reason. Enjoy the trip and always remember to pray for your safety.

Ang Tunay na Kaibigan Parang Gamit...

Ang tunay na kaibigan parang gamit

Yung iba PAYONG,
panangga sa pangit
na panahon;

Yung iba RULER,
nagtutuwid ng
kabaluktutan;

Yung iba PAMBURA,
tumutulong makalimot
sa nakaraang ayaw balikan;

meron pang TSINELAS,
sinasalo lahat ng
bubog wag ka
lang masaktan.

di mo man makita
sarili mo sa mga yan,
may natitira pa—

KAHOY simple lang
pero atleast
walang kaplastikan.. :)

“ang pinakamasakit ay yung oras na, ngingiti ka nalang para hindi tumulo ang luha, at matulog para hindi ka nalang mag-isip. pero pag-gising mo sa umaga umiiyak ka parin”

BROKEN-HEARTED vs HEARTBREAKER

BROKEN-HEARTED: Ako yung nagiisang tao na nagmahal sayo ng sobra sobra at saten dalawa ikaw ang mas higit na nawalan. Dahil isang araw magmamahal ako ulit tulad ng pagmamahal ko sayo pero ikaw hindi mo na mararanasang mahalin ng tulad ng pagmamahal na ginawa ko!

HEART BREAKER: Hindi nga ako makakatagpo ng magmamahal saken ng sobra sobra tulad ng ginawa mo. Pero isa lang sinisigurado ko sayo, mamahalin ko siya sa paraang pinangarap mo na mahalin kita.

Broken Hearted Girl