Don't come back at all...

Trying to forget someone who gave you so much to remember is almost impossible, and will hurt you in more ways than it can help you. In life one crucial bit that we must remember is that the memories that we make with people in different places and in different times, are the memories that help to make us who we are on the inside. 

Though there will be people in your life that commit acts and say words to us that are wrong, we should never forget about the memories they helped us create because it is with these memories that we are able to build upon the rest of our lives. Remember that your memories are for you to be able to use to educate you about the good times and the bad times in your past, while your dreams should be used to help educate you about your future.

LET GO.

The mistakes that you have made in your past, should be left in your past. Little do many of us realize but nobody is perfect. As a matter of fact, life just wouldn't be life if we were perfect. There would be no room for growth, and we would live our lives with no direction and no purpose. 

Victory is the sweetest when we have experienced defeat, it is sweetest when we have obstacles in our way to overcome. There is no testimony without a test, and even though you may have failed a few tests in your past, there are still many tests in your future that you will have a good opportunity to ace if you maintain a good work ethic, remain motivated, and be willing to forget about failing in the past. Many of you today must stop beating yourselves up because of the mistakes that you have made in the past, learn from them, use this wisdom for gains in your life, and let those mistakes go!!!

Having enough courage to really believe in yourself is sometimes a process that takes longer to develop in some people compared to others. Though some are exposed to being confident and living a faithful life when they are young, not everyone is quite blessed with this early guidance and end up starting and living much of their adult life having to find out who they really are, and what having self confidence is really about.

At some moment in our lives we must learn exactly who we are, and the fact that we are capable of anything that we truly put our minds too. With this we must also believe wholeheartedly in acting, and sticking to doing things that will actually mean something to us, instead of devoting all of ourselves to a cause that we have no passion for, or a cause that we in no shape or form believe in. <3

Who are we to know any better?

Sometimes when we love we are stuck loving someone who has no desire to change, or no desire to work things out with us in an effort to make things better, or to keep the relationship on a track of growth and fulfillment. There comes a point in time in some relationships that we must realize the only option that we have to live a good life is to let what is weighing us down in life go.

Sometimes a love must be broken and let go so that both hearts won't have to keep suffering. Though it is true that love makes you want to hold on to things that you shouldn't, it is up to you to seek what is truly in your heart to know that you deserve greatness in every aspect of your life, including your love life. There is a huge difference between settling for a person because of the love shared in the past, and loving someone because they are who is meant for you. Never be afraid to let go.

If any person that you give your time, effort, and energy to doesn't act like they appreciate you, they don't deserve for you to give your time, effort and energy to them. Don't be bothered with those who wont receive from you. As in the parable of the sower, there are just some people who will never allow for him or her to receive any thing from anyone else. Some soil or people will never be able to let go and humble their selves enough to receive anything from any person, including you. 

Don't get discouraged, because there are many others who need help as well. Sometimes we may be able to effectively inspire a whole nation of people that we aren't close to, but not be able to touch who needs it the most and is closest to us. This is just how life works in some instances. We have to choose to let go of the things in life that are slowing our progression and the progression of the people who we are missing out on blessing.

A mother is defined literally as a parent of the female gender. Characteristics of a mother include a person who protects, loves, cherishes, sacrifices, teaches, and works hard to provide the best upbringing possible for her children. From the time a mother has a child in the womb, they endure lots of changes to their bodies, and the overall lives they live, and usually endure a tremendous amount of pain during the actual birth of their child(ren).

A mother's touch is something that is very hard to duplicate, and is something that everyone can use and love when they are growing up. We need to be sure to celebrate our mothers, and let them know that we will forever be grateful for all of the things, the sacrifice, the pain, and the love that they have given to us. Never take having a mother for granted, because not everyone is lucky enough to have one in their lives. Treat your mother just as special as she really is, as one in a million.

If Someone Wanted To Stay They'd Still Be There

Coming to terms with a real break up is something that is very difficult to do. When you have a hard time letting go of someone that you still care for, realize that if they wanted to stay they would still be there. Very few things can creep in the way of true love, and if a person wanted you in their life, they most certainly would make a way for that to be. <3