Often in life we forget the things we should remember and remember the things we should forget.

Be Unique.

Being who you are isn't something that you should have to debate about with any of your so called "friends". When a person tries to dictate your thoughts, your opinions, your words, your style, and everything else that makes you unique, you have to realize that they honestly have no desire to see who you are as a person, blossom. Those who don't like you may at times try to tell you how to live your life, and may pass judgement on you, but in the end it is only the judgement from God that truly matters. 

Don't allow yourself to live your life trying to make everyone like you, and trying to please people who you will never please. Keep it simple, and give time to those who give you respect and love, instead of the ones whose intentions are out of nothing more than hate, jealousy, and spite.

Rare Chance

In everything we're choosing, there are thousands of things we are refusing... that was the very first lesson I learned from a very special person.

Anyone who has ever talked with her would tell you that... She's fearless. She's tough. As her friend, I had a rare chance to get to know a side of her that I rarely see in other people. She is a wonderful person through and through. She's kind. She's patient. She may push you to the edge but it would always be worth it. She's loving. She's generous. And she will never give up on you. She would always be someone who'd care enough to encourage. Someone who will give others confidence. Someone who will point you toward the right direction. Someone who is selfless enough to share her passion, her knowledge, and her heart. And if the tables were turned and I were given the chance to tell her one thing my heart says... A one final lesson I want to share. That is, "You are worth more than all the thousand things that could be refused by someone like me."

This person, who has recently won the coveted spot of the best person in the prestigious book of my life, her name, Grace.

-- Karla Bianca.

Realized

I've been asking myself, why does the person who'd hurt you from the past has to come back? Dati, di ko alam ang sagot, but now ... Baka nagbabalik sila to make you realize how much you've changed, how much you've grown and how much you've moved on. Kung gaano ka na ka-better person now unlike before...

--kb

Foolish Heart

Falling in love. it’s not always a happily-ever-after story. Most of the time, it’s just one of those once-upon-a-time’s. Sometimes we have to give up wonderful things just to make everything alright. We have to bleed alone for somebody to smile,we need to let those tears flow just to save the tears of others. we have to break our hearts to fill somebody else emptiness. And there are times where we have to give up our own happiness just to rescue someone else burden.

--♥

For those who are in a Relationship

Para sa mga babae:
di lahat ng gusto natin, yun ang masusunod. Being in a relationship is like giving suggestions to one another for everything to work out.
Pabayaan nyong maglaro ng online/offline games boyfriend nyo. Parang tayo lang din naman sila ehh. Diba, ‘pag may gusto tayong gawin, ayaw natin yung pipigilan tayo? It’s the same for them. You can limit his time, but not totally make him quit.
Di dapat sinisisi ang lahat ng pag-aaway sa boyfriend nyo. Di naman magiging away ang isang maliit na misunderstanding kung di natin bini-big deal.

Para sa mga lalake:
know your limits. You can play online/offline games if you want pero alalahanin nyo, you should give time to your girlfriend. Ang mga babae kase, kahit sobra na ang tiwala sayo, magseselos at magseselos pa rin yan. In some point kase, iisipin ng mga babae na parang mas importante ang barkada o ang laro kesa sa kanya. You should balance both your relationship and your friends.
di kayo dapat ang humiwalay sa babae. In the first place, kayo yung nanligaw. Pinangarap nyo yung babae. Di dahilan na hindi sya yung klaseng babae that you expected her to be, mawawalan ka ng gana. Di yan pagmamahal. You should accept every little bit of her. Hindi agad-agad pero slowly. Understand her lalo na sa times na nagiging moody sya.
All in all, wag na wag nyong huhukayin yung napag-awayan na. Ika nga, forgive and forget.

VIP

V.I.P. - Very Important Person

Do you have someone in mind whom you can say that he/she is a very important person to you and to your life?

I guess everyone does.

There's this person whom I consider very important to me. She inspires me a lot. She inspires me in singing, writing, work, and in everything I do. She is really a good model. I consider her as my second mother for she is too caring, loving, beautiful, and wonderful.

She is so generous, she is terrific, she is exceptional. I like everything about her. I so adore her, and I just wanted to be like her in time.

There's this feeling that I will do anything for her. She's just so important that I never let her snip by in my mind. Everyday I think about her. I always want to give her the best. The happiness.

But of course, too much is bad. I am starting to learn how to not care that much, love that much... for I know someday, we'll be apart. And that would be the hardest part.

But since, we're still in this world... and we are together, I should enjoy every moment and every day!

Bitterness

Bitterness - Salitang pantukoy sa taong mapait ang pagkatao. Hindi masaya, at puno ng inis at galit sa pagkatao.

Maraming tao sa mundong ito ang BITTER. Yun bang imbes na maging masaya at maayos ang pakikisama sa ibang tao, e, lalong sumasama. Alam natin na hindi maganda ang may kaaway. At ako, yung tipo ng taong ayoko ng may kaaway... Pero, 'di naman natin maiiwasan 'yon hindi ba?

Marami akong kilalang tao na BITTER, at sa ngayon, kilalang kilala ko siya. It's been 4 months na, pero matigas talaga ang puso niya. At nakakagulat lang... kung ano-anong sinasabi ng taong 'to against sakin. Sinasabi niya na naninira daw ako ng kanyang pagkatao, sumbungera daw ako, at kung ano-ano pa. Well, aminado ako, mahirap talaga trabaho ko... Dahil nasa 'kin ang sisi. Funny thing is that, lahat ng sinasabi niya, ay hindi totoo.

Anong dapat gawin sa mga taong ganon? Hayaan lang... Never stoop down to their level. Wag tayong gumaya sa kanila lalo na at siya ay matanda pa kesa sakin... Isip bata. Nakakatawa na lang isipin.

Nakakatawang isipin na may mga taong hindi makamove on sa mga pangyayari. Nananahimik ka na, pero eto sila, kumakahol na parang aso. Tumatahol sa taong hindi nila kilala. TAMA DI BA? :)

Yun bang sugod sila ng sugod, parinig dito, parinig doon... Pero ako, tahimik lang. Tahimik ako hindi dahil takot ako, kundi dahil ayokong pumatol sa mga taong mas mababa pa ang lipad kesa sakin.

2 months na lang, magiging malaya na 'ko. Makakalaya na ako sa mga taong BITTER. Ako kasi yung taong positibo. Ayokong sumasali sa mga taong negative dahil nakakaapekto ito, te! Di GA? haha.

Ewan ko ba, kaya kayo! Silence is the best revenge. OKAY?! :)

Don't come back at all...

Trying to forget someone who gave you so much to remember is almost impossible, and will hurt you in more ways than it can help you. In life one crucial bit that we must remember is that the memories that we make with people in different places and in different times, are the memories that help to make us who we are on the inside. 

Though there will be people in your life that commit acts and say words to us that are wrong, we should never forget about the memories they helped us create because it is with these memories that we are able to build upon the rest of our lives. Remember that your memories are for you to be able to use to educate you about the good times and the bad times in your past, while your dreams should be used to help educate you about your future.

LET GO.

The mistakes that you have made in your past, should be left in your past. Little do many of us realize but nobody is perfect. As a matter of fact, life just wouldn't be life if we were perfect. There would be no room for growth, and we would live our lives with no direction and no purpose. 

Victory is the sweetest when we have experienced defeat, it is sweetest when we have obstacles in our way to overcome. There is no testimony without a test, and even though you may have failed a few tests in your past, there are still many tests in your future that you will have a good opportunity to ace if you maintain a good work ethic, remain motivated, and be willing to forget about failing in the past. Many of you today must stop beating yourselves up because of the mistakes that you have made in the past, learn from them, use this wisdom for gains in your life, and let those mistakes go!!!